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| The Double Attack from the East and West Shores. |
My mom loves Amy Tan. I’m talking multiple rereads of The Joy Luck Club, well-worn paperback, folded corners, writing in the margins, underlining key passages and the occasional sticky note that says “so true!” in Chinese. It’s one of her comfort books: part motherly wisdom, part emotional catharsis, part “see, this is what it was like for me growing up with your grandmother in this country."
And honestly, I get it. As an author who captures the push-and-pull between Chinese immigrant parents and their American-born kids, Amy Tan speaks to people like my mom. People who lived that cultural tightrope firsthand. But embarrassingly, I hadn’t actually read anything by Tan until now. Chalk it up to my lifelong rebellion against anything my mom told me I should do because she knows best.
Rules of the Game is subtle, smart, and layered in that quiet Amy Tan way that sneaks up on you. It’s about Waverly Place Jong, a precocious girl growing up in San Francisco’s Chinatown who becomes a chess prodigy. Her name (“Waverly Place”) feels symbolic, caught between two worlds. Chess, of course, becomes a metaphor for life, for control, for navigating a world where everyone’s playing by different rules.
There’s a line that really hit me: when Waverly’s mother flips through the chess instruction book and mutters, “This American rules.” It’s such a small moment, but perfectly encapsulates the juxtaposition between Chinese culture and American values. No one explains the “rules” of America to immigrants. It's often filled with hardship and sacrifice (like in chess). You have to learn them the hard way, piece by piece. It’s both funny and heartbreaking, the way Tan captures that gap between generations: the daughter mastering the literal rules of chess and the mother mastering the invisible rules of survival.
There's more to this story than the complex relationship between the young girl and her mother, even though it's done quite well. It’s about every argument, every misunderstanding, every proud-but-stubborn moment between two people who love each other deeply but can’t quite say it out loud. Basically, it’s like every dinner conversation I’ve ever had with my mom.
Maybe it’s time I finally borrow my mom's beat up copy of The Joy Luck Club, though let’s be honest, she’ll probably just use that as an excuse to “accidentally” quiz me on it later.


